Soooooo I've been diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. The irony is
deafening. I made such an idol out of sports and exercise but now I
have an autoimmune disease that will inevitably leave me disabled
someday. It is just another pride lesson. Fitness is not that
important; well at least as important as I made it. But now I will use
my experience and knowledge to combat and delay the effects and
symptoms.
Somewhere in the middle of January, I woke up to a very strange feeling
in my left arm. The whole thing was numb and tingly, all the way up to
my spine and up my neck. I had lost some feeling in my finger tips and
my trapezius, a large shoulder blade muscle, was completely dead. It
would not engage/fire whatsoever. That bothered me but I was stubborn.
I didn'ttttt need no docccccccc. Right. I finally went a couple days
later and this guy said it was a pinched nerve. Ok sweet. They gave me
a steroid shot and some pills. This definitely helped reduce the
inflammation of the nerve endings, which moderately relieved the
symptoms. But more time passed and it still wasn't getting completely
better, so I went back. They took my co-pay and five minutes later told
me I need an MRI. They kept asking me what my pain was on a scale of
1-10. I was like,
'zero, maybe a one.' It was uncomfortable, but it didn't hurt. Being
stubborn again, I did not want to pay for it. I finally got an MRI and
not 30 minutes after they called me to tell me the bad news.
In the meantime I started going to a chiropractor I know from church and
he has done wonders. The MS I have comes in waves, so I'm currently
still recovering from that relapse. Before I went and saw him, I
couldn't even really play basketball. My coordination was shot in my
left arm, which meant I couldn't dribble or catch a pass. What bothered
me even more was when I did a simple test that I used to do on
clients. You stand on one foot, stick your arms out, close your eyes
and try to touch your nose with both middle fingers. I did that test
and with my left arm I touched my chin, instead of my nose. Having my
back worked on a couple times a week has had unbelievable results. I'm
certainly not back to what I was on the court, but I'm a lot closer.
Before I couldn't even touch the rim and now I can grab it with both
hands. And I can catch the ball again.
There is no cure for MS and no one knows what causes it. It is
more prevalent in females but it usually shows the first signs between
20-40 years old. The drugs are pretty powerful. And expensive. I'm
supposed to begin treatment soon. Some of the pills you take and they
last for months. Others require you to stick yourself every other day.
I'm not worried. Bring it to me. I'm about to play the cards I've
been dealt with a smile on my face. There is no sense crying and
whining about things you can't change. God has a plan. Romans 8:28
says,"28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[a] have been called according to his purpose." That's all I need to know.
It has been interesting to me the response I have gotten. The
people around me are definitely more concerned than I am. My attitude
is kind of like, 'ahhh whatevs.' I love the people in my life and
greatly appreciate their support, but I'll walk away from someone super
concerned I just told and be like, 'yeesh, I'm not dead.' Unless you
knew me really well or watched me hoop, you wouldn't even be able to
tell. My neurologist gave me a bunch of packets of different drugs I
could take. If there is one thing I hate, it's anything that would fall
under the category of paperwork. I don't want to look at that junk,
reading through all the side effects and such. Just tell me what I
gotta do and I'll do it. If she wants to know what I feel like I should
do, I'll be like, 'you're the doc. You tell me.'
The only thing I'm apprehensive about is my commitments later this
year. I would like to show up able to do the things I said I could
physically do, as well as the person my references made me out to be. I
do not want to have a relapse in the midst of a tour or disaster
relief. But like I said, I'm not worried. I mean by rights, I am
fallen, I am a sinner and I completely and fully deserve God's wrath.
It's only by the grace of God I'm even alive, let alone fortunate enough
to function as well as I do. And heck, it's about time something bad
happened to me. I'm soooo blessed. I've had every need my whole life
taken care of, I have two college degrees, a wonderful family, awesome
friends, my parents aren't divorced, decently fit, I can see, I don't go
to bed starving, etc. Life was just too easy. I'm not arrogantly
saying I want bad things to happen to me because I was too awesome
before. I'm saying I have been fortunate enough to never have been
through rough trials. I feel like that has made me soft. I can't wait
for all the lessons I'm going to learn and how I will grow through this
ordeal.
"Learn from the mistakes of others. You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself."
Eleanor Roosevelt
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